Counting My Blessings: 1571 to 1580

Counting My Blessings

Every week (more or less), I share on the blog all the good things (and bad) I am grateful to God for.  If you’d like to know more, check out these blog posts on why I do it and how to get started.  Care to join me on this journey of intentional thanksgiving?

1571. Fresh mercy each morning.

1572. Getting drenched in the rain with the boys.

1573. Authentic Andhra meals.

1574. United prayers.

1575. Father and sons window shopping cars online.

1576. Cooler weather.

1577. Rasgullas.

1578. Hope for the grieving.

1579. Catching up with friends over a cup of chai.

1580. This quote.

“Trying to do the Lord’s work in your own strength is the most confusing, exhausting, and tedious of all work. But when you are filled with the Holy Spirit, then the ministry of Jesus just flows out of you.” – Corrie ten Boom

Are you in the habit of counting your blessings? I mean, literally counting them 1, 2, 3… Would you consider joining me on this journey? Would you dare to live fully, right where you are?

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Top 3 Thursday – Edition #47

Top 3 Thursday

One of the reasons I started blogging was to share with others the things that have inspired me, tips that I’ve found helpful, and other blogs that have positively influenced me. So, that’s what you’ll find here on my Top 3 Thursday posts.

Here are 3 blog posts that encouraged me this week… Click through and read them, won’t you?

1. 10 Ways to Maximize Moments of Rest @ The Better Mom

2. The false advertising about motherhood @ Lisa-Jo Baker

3. 5 Common Discipline Mistakes Every Parent Should Avoid @ For The Family

If you have read or written an encouraging blog post during the week, would you share the link in the comments below. I’d love to check it out!

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5 Tips to Sleep Early

5 Tips to Sleep Early

The boys have officially started 1st standard which means more hours in school. They have to leave the house before 8am, which means I need to be up at least by 6 to get their breakfast and lunch ready.

Let’s just say it’s a new kind of crazy around here!

After a pretty laidback summer schedule, I’m struggling to wake up on time in the mornings… especially if I didn’t get enough sleep the previous night. After much deliberation, I realized I had to forgo my late nights if I wanted to wake up on time. {DUH!}

You see, I religiously guard my time after the kids are in bed. That is MY time – to wind up my work online, blog, eat in peace, watch TV and just relax on the couch. I DO NOT want to go to sleep until I really have to! {Wierd, I know!} 🙂

Well, sacrifices had to be made…

But surprisingly, I found that even if I went to bed early some nights, I would stay awake for hours before I actually went into a deep sleep.

I took a hard look at my activities during the day, and found that quite a few of them were directly responsible for my disturbed nights.

So, without further ado, here are my top 5 tips to sleep early!

1. Wake up early

I know… I know… the reason we need to go to bed early is because we want to wake up on time. But I’ve found that if I start waking up early, I am more likely to go to bed on time.

2. Skip the evening coffee

This is such a struggle for me, because I think coffee is one of my love languages. I’ve begun to make do without my evening coffee. I substitute with lots of water… or a tea with milk if I desperately need a pick me up in the evenings.

3. Stay away from lighted screens

If I watch too much TV, or stare at the laptop screen or iPad for too long, my mind doesn’t wind down even after I hit the bed. So now I watch just a little TV after the kids are in bed, and then go to bed a half hour before I actually need to sleep. Then I read a book on my iPad (using the Kindle app) with the brightness set really low. I usually fall asleep before I complete a chapter.

{The exception is if I start reading historical Christian fiction. Somehow, I am never able to put those down until it’s WAY past my bed time.}

4. No sugary foods late in the evenings.

I had a bad habit of diving into my hidden stash of chocolate after the kids are in bed. On those days that I eat lots of chocolate or ice-cream (or the Indian sweets my mother faithfully brings when she visits), I take much longer to fall asleep. It’s easier to do abide by the ‘no chocolate rule’ now because there’s no chocolate in the house. When the fridge does get stacked again, it will be a true test of my determination!

5. Give yourself a cheat day.

I cheat on the weekend. I do not get up early because the boys don’t have to be in school. I usually stay up late on Friday and Saturday nights and sleep in on the weekends. This allows me to catch up on sleep and gets me back to the ‘wake up early’ routine on Monday morning.

So, what do you give up in order to sleep early? Got any tips for me?

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Counting My Blessings: 1561 to 1570

Counting My Blessings

Every week (more or less), I share on the blog all the good things (and bad) I am grateful to God for.  If you’d like to know more, check out these blog posts on why I do it and how to get started.  Care to join me on this journey of intentional thanksgiving?

1561. Ready made chicken masala.

1562. Daily workouts.

1563. Sore muscles.

1564. A husband who delights in imitating my quirkiness.

1565. Remembering the encouraging words my mother said to me almost 2 decades ago.

1566. Fellowship over coffee at a mall.

1567. Financial planning.

1568. The car magazine our sons can’t seem to get enough of.

1569. House cleaning that involves the entire family.

1570. Playing indoor cricket with Judah in our living room.

Are you in the habit of counting your blessings? I mean, literally counting them 1, 2, 3… Would you consider joining me on this journey? Would you dare to live fully, right where you are?

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Top 3 Thursday – Edition #46

Top 3 Thursday

Here are 3 blog posts that encouraged me this week… Click through and read them, won’t you?

1. The iPad is stealing my son’s childhood @ I Can Teach My Child {This is pretty much why we too have limited the screen time for our boys.}

2. Motherhood: 3 Lies and 3 Truths @ WholeHearted Home {Yup! I’ve believed all three lies at some point or the other.}

3. This Isn’t a Dress Rehearsal @ Real Life Titus Two {Loved this perspective!}

If you have read or written an encouraging blog post during the week, would you share the link in the comments below. I’d love to check it out!

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Counting My Blessings: 1551 to 1560

Counting My Blessings

Every week (more or less), I share on the blog all the good things (and bad) I am grateful to God for.  If you’d like to know more, check out these blog posts on why I do it and how to get started.  Care to join me on this journey of intentional thanksgiving?

1551. Amazing grace.

1552. Phone calls with Mummy dearest.

1553. Time to work out.

1554. A discerning husband.

1555. The Saturday homework marathon.

1556. More writing.

1557. Hot fudge cake at Corner House {Finally!}

1558. A 4-burner gas stove.

1559. Friends to share the struggles of real life with.

1560. Three little boys in their school blazers. {Dashing!}

Are you in the habit of counting your blessings? I mean, literally counting them 1, 2, 3… Would you consider joining me on this journey? Would you dare to live fully, right where you are?

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What Defines You?

What Defines You?

We began the much anticipated #YouAreLoved Bible study at Good Morning Girls this week. Apart from the daily readings, there are also weekly challenges we are encouraged to participate it.

The Week 1 Challenge was this…

#YouAreLoved Week 1 Challenge

I really thought I would pass up on this challenge. I mean, it seemed pretty pointless. I’ve known about God’s love for as long as I can remember. And I’ve been actively growing in Christ for more than a decade. I already knew who I was in Christ!

{That, my friend, is spiritual pride. What a blow!}

Anyway, I thought I’d just do the challenge in my mind, but was persuaded to give it a proper shot. And boy, am I glad I did!

I took a clean sheet of paper and started listing down my failures, my insecurities, my weaknesses…

As I wrote,  my throat constricted… my heart became heavy as I thought of all the things that were defining me.

Mistakes I had made…

Words that had hurt me…

Experiences that had left behind scars…

As I filled up that page, I realized I had subconsciously allowed a lot of negative things to define me. But it didn’t have to be that way.

I wrote in bold words across the page, “Nothing can separate me from the love of Christ.”

I took a deep breath and tore the paper to bits!

Oh the freedom I experienced!

It is one thing to know you are free… but to physically do this was so very powerful.

I had a spring in my step as I walked over to the dustbin and threw the pieces of paper inside.

I am not defined by my failures, the past, words that have hurt me, or people who have let me down.

And guess what? Neither are you!

You are not defined by your past mistakes, the insults hurled at you, the abuse you’ve endured or what others think of you.

You are defined by who you are in Christ… and in Christ you are a conqueror!

…in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. (Romans 8:37)

I want to urge you to take up this challenge today. Don’t put it off for tomorrow… it only takes a few minutes. And the end result is well worth it!

Have a blessed day, fellow conqueror!

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Counting My Blessings: 1541 to 1550

Counting My Blessings

Every week (more or less), I share on the blog all the good things (and bad) I am grateful to God for.  If you’d like to know more, check out these blog posts on why I do it and how to get started.  Care to join me on this journey of intentional thanksgiving?

1541. The #YouAreLoved study.

1542. Changes.

1543. God’s strength displayed amid persecution.

1544. The sober realization that my boys will be in school for 7 – 8 hours every weekday, come tomorrow.

1545. The fact that I’ll miss their rapid-fire questioning…

1546. …and the way they trail behind me at home, all day long!

1547. Conflicts that are resolved almost immediately.

1548. The mess in the kitchen after the boys fixed their own sandwiches.

1549. A back-to-school buying spree.

1550. A game of badminton with the boys.

Are you in the habit of counting your blessings? I mean, literally counting them 1, 2, 3… Would you consider joining me on this journey? Would you dare to live fully, right where you are?

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Top 3 Thursday – Edition #45 – Online Bible Studies

Top 3 Thursday

I’ve completed quite a few online Bible studies over the past few years. I thought I’ll document them here on the blog should any of you be interested in them, as well.

The beauty of an online Bible study is that I don’t have to go somewhere to do it – I can follow the given plan right from the comfort of my own home. And that’s another benefit – that somebody else already plans out the portion of Scripture to be read each day.

Without dragging it on any further, let me list down 3 of my favorites.

1. Good Morning Girls

Good Morning Girls

I discovered Good Morning Girls (GMG) way back in September 2011, and I’ve done every one of their studies since then. I simply love their free reading plans and study guides. I also have to mention that the ladies behind this site are just ordinary women like you and me… but they love an extraordinary God, and give their all to serve Him.

You can check out all the times I’ve raved about GMG here. I am SO stoked about their new #YouAreLoved study that begins Monday! Come join us?!

2. Time-Warp Wife

In between my GMG studies, I’ve also done a couple of life application Bible studies written by Darlene Schacht. Her Ruth and Esther studies have been very insightful, and I’m hoping to dive into Philippians too in the near future. All 3 Bible studies are available free for Facebook fans of Time-Warp Wife.

3. Hello Mornings

I’ve also completed a couple of studies with Hello Mornings in the past. I just checked their schedule and found they have a new study beginning next month. They also provide accountability groups to help you make the most of your mornings with quiet time, planning your day, and exercise.

God, Plan, Move

So, have you tried out any online Bible studies? Which is your favorite?

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Book Review: The Nesting Place

Book Review: The Nesting Place

I must begin this review with a disclaimer that I am definitely not the decorator kind. I’ll take practical over pretty any day, and that applies to a variety of things in my life – ranging from clothing to home decor. So, the only reason I picked up this book was because (a) the author a popular blogger, and (b) I was bored of how our < 1000 sq.ft. rental apartment looked.

Now on to the review!

The Nesting Place: It Doesn’t Have to Be Perfect to Be Beautiful by Myquillyn Smith was a surprising read for this non-creative, reluctant homemaker. The fact that the author had moved 13 times (to mostly rental homes) and still managed to make her living space look beautiful gave me some hope.

The book is filled with lovely color photos of the author’s home (which looks real & lived in… not like a museum, by the way). And the author’s advice to take risks with home decor (even in a rental home) was very liberating.

Here’s a quote from the book that I’ll be applying in more areas than just my home:

“At times, good enough and done is a smarter choice than perfect, and simply making a choice is often a sign of maturity, balance, and contentment.”

This is not just a home decorating book. It does not just have lovely pictures of the author’s home. It does not just give you practical ideas to make the most of what you have.

This book taught me contentment, allowing me to appreciate my dwelling place. And above all, it gave me hope that I too can make my home look beautiful, even with its imperfections.

I never put much effort into decorating our home because it was a rental. Coincidentally, while I was reading this book, my husband and I were also thinking of changing the look of our living room. We had a huge entertainment center right in the middle of our living room that housed our television, DVD player, music system, photo frames, books, medals, and a variety of knickknacks.

before-picture

The only problem was that it occupied a large central portion of our living room, and all the other furniture was ‘bowing down’ to the TV. My husband had this crazy idea to saw off a part of the shelving and push the rest of it to a corner of the room.

I usually don’t take much action on crazy ideas, but The Nesting Place kind of gave me the courage to try something new. I had another wild idea (to add to my husband’s)… I suggested we take the sawed off portion of the shelving, remove the glass dividers and lay it down horizontally in the kids’ room – to hold their books, blocks, puzzles and stationery.

So that’s what we did!

after-picture

The top half of the picture is our current entertainment center, pushed to a side of the living room. Our TV is no longer the center of attention. The couches (and the people sitting on them are). And there is more breathing space in the living room, making it appear much larger than it is.

The bottom half of the after picture, is the shelf laid down on it’s side in our kids’ room. All their stuff is now relegated to one corner of the room. Score!

So happy we took the risk and sawed up our entertainment center to make our living space look & feel better. Thank you Nester! 🙂

Disclosure: I received a free Kindle version of this book from the publisher through the BookLook Bloggers book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are entirely my own.

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