Counting My Blessings: 1311 to 1320

Counting My Blessings

Every week, I share on the blog all the good things (and bad) I am grateful to God for.  If you’d like to know more, check out these blog posts on why I do it and how to get started.  Care to join me on this journey of intentional thanksgiving?

1311. The way Jason was focused on copying a picture of a super bike.

1312. A surprise birthday blast.

1313. Good feedback from the kids’ teacher in school.

1314. Mounting expenses.

1315. Just sufficient income.

1316. The kids finding cloud shapes on our drive to church.

1317. A powerful Saturday evening prayer session in church.

1318. Jon’s quick recovery from a fever and cough.

1319. Love stories arranged by God.

1320. Vacation plans. 

Are you in the habit of counting your blessings?  I mean, literally counting them 1, 2, 3… Would you consider joining me on this journey?  Would you dare to live fully, right where you are?

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Goals Versus Growth {Part 1}

Goals Versus Growth {Part 1}

I came across the following image on Peak313’s Facebook page a few months back.

This page from John C. Maxwell’s book basically drives the point that we need to place a higher priority on growth rather than goals.

I am a huge fan of goals.  In fact, for a year and a half I set monthly goals and spent my days working to achieve them!  But over the past few months I’ve let that habit slide.

If you look at the last set of goals I made in June this year, I did strike out a few of them – my Bible studies, purging the kids’ clothes, walking, and my reading.  But a few of them still remain undone {It’s been 4 months and I’m still plodding my way through the book of Exodus!}.

One area I feel badly about is this blog.  I used to have a weekly blogging goal that looked something like this:

Monday – Counting my Blessings post
Tuesday/Wednesday – A good content post
Thursday – Top 3 Thursday post
Friday – 5 Minute Friday post

I haven’t followed that schedule in at least 6 months!  I don’t think I’ve ever been this inconsistent since I started blogging.  I have about 30 blog posts in the draft stage, but I simply lack the time and mental clarity required to edit and publish them.

Some of my old goals don’t make a lot of sense anymore.

I love this quote from Holley Gerth’s ebook, “Do What You Can” Plan:

“What’s necessary is realizing that goals aren’t ultimatums; they are simply directions. We are in charge of them— they’re not in charge of us. Goals can be changed, adjusted, or dismissed any time we’d like or as soon as God shows us that it’s time for a switch.”

So, I’m learning that it’s okay to not meet my own goals sometimes.  Seasons change, life happens…  It’s okay to discard old goals, make new ones, or not set goals at all for a while.

True, goals are important in life… but growth matters more.  We need to grow, mature, improve in all aspects of life.  We cannot let the inability to meet our goals hinder our personal growth.  We cannot afford to become stagnant.

I have a bit more to share on the topic of growth, but duty calls :).  I’ll post the rest in another post {hopefully} next week.

I encourage you to think about this today:

Are you goal conscious or growth conscious?  In what areas of your life do you need to grow?

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Counting My Blessings: 1296 to 1310

Counting My Blessings

Every week, I share on the blog all the good things (and bad) I am grateful to God for.  If you’d like to know more, check out these blog posts on why I do it and how to get started.  Care to join me on this journey of intentional thanksgiving?

Some days, worries, disappointments and stress threaten to overpower the hope that we have from above.  But let’s be determined to count our blessings, no matter what!

1296. Uninterrupted power supply.

1297. A text from a sweet sister in Christ that read:

“Those who bless God in their trials will be blessed by God through their trials.”

1298. A laptop that wouldn’t power on…

1299. …and a backup device {albeit extremely slow}.

1300. Surrendered worship.

1301. Fellowship with friends after church.

1302. A shoulder sprain…

1303. …and regaining full mobility.

1304. Encouragement from real-life friends who read the blog.

1305. Neatly folded laundry.

1306. Unexpected expenses…

1307. …and just enough income to meet them all.

1308. The gift of eternal life.

1309. The determination to persevere.

1310. Hope in Christ who’s still in control!

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The Passionate Mom: Book Review

The Passionate Mom: Dare To Parent In Today’s World is a parenting book written by Susan Merrill, Director of iMOM.  (iMOM was the very first parenting blog I ever followed and it changed my perspective of motherhood a great deal.)  Anyway, I’ve been following the blogs of the author and her husband for more than 2 years now and I was excited at the opportunity to review this book.

I love gleaning life lessons from the Bible, and the fact that “The Passionate Mom” is based on the book of Nehemiah, made it all the more interesting.  The author likens parenting to the way Nehemiah built the wall around Jerusalem.  Taking the reader verse-by-verse through the book of Nehemiah, she describes the qualities Nehemiah possessed that are essential for parenting our kids well.

“Nehemiah had what every mother needs to parent well in today’s world, and he provided a pattern for us to follow.” ~ Susan Merrill, The Passionate Mom

There are 10 essentials the author recommends that all parents develop:

      1. Perception
      2. Pondering
      3. Passion
      4. Prayer
      5. Patience
      6. Preparation
      7. Purpose
      8. Planning
      9. Problem Solving
      10. Perseverance

Each chapter refers to one of these topics as a brick in the wall we are building in our children’s lives.  And as bricks need mortar to hold them together, the author also includes in each chapter, qualities/traits we parents need to develop to keep the bricks in place.

The author discusses practical topics such as electronics and dating that are very relevant to parenting in this day and age.  However, I do believe this book would best be appreciated by parents of tweens and teens.  There was some valuable advice I took to heart as a mother of 5 year old boys, but I’m sure the wealth of information in this book will be very handy when my boys are older.

Altogether, a good read – practical and very helpful!

Disclosure: I received a free Kindle version of this book from the publisher through the BookSneeze®.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are entirely my own.

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Counting My Blessings: 1281 to 1295

Counting My Blessings

Every week, I share on the blog all the good things (and bad) I am grateful to God for.  If you’d like to know more, check out these blog posts on why I do it and how to get started.  Care to join me on this journey of intentional thanksgiving?

1281. Jason reciting all the synonyms for the word “finished” in English and Tamil, just for fun!

1282. A plastic stool that bears the marks of Judah’s incessant drumming.

1283. Jon’s glee as he played with bubble wrap.

1284. The nebulizer we bought 4 years ago.

1285. An empty kitchen sink.

1286. Viewing NICU pictures with the kids.

1287. Difficult study sessions.

1288. This reminder.

1289. The sons ardently listening to the father narrating the transformation of Saul to Paul.

1290. Sons who keep themselves occupied for the most part of the day.

1291. A determined husband…

1292. …who coerced me to drive the car….

1293. …and I didn’t freak out! {a minor miracle}

1294. Hope in Christ for those on the waiting list for a miracle.

1295. An encouraging reply to my comment on this post.

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Five Minute Friday: Last

I’m writing for 5 minutes today on the word: Last.

I see raising 3 boys as an ongoing roller coaster ride.  It’s been scary, exhilarating, frustrating, mind-blowing, stressful and fun!  When I look back at the first few years, it all seems a blur, though.  I really couldn’t have made it without God’s grace and my husband’s support.

While I’m so grateful that the triplets are a bit older and more understanding now, I wonder if I missed out on being intentional in their toddler years.  Agreed, each day was a struggle and I couldn’t wait for them to grow up.

But still…

Was I so excited they could walk, that I missed their last crawl?

Was I so happy they learned to talk, that I missed the last gurgle?

Was I so relieved they could take care of themselves, that I missed the last time I’d brush their teeth, wipe wet faces or comb their hair?

I sure hope not…

The memories are still there, and I hope to never forget.

But that reminds me of now…  today!  I can be intentional with the time I spend with my boys right this moment!

The trio - 1 year old

I can savor sweet random kisses.

I can smile more, frown less.

I can say “Yes” to playing on the floor with them.

I can live more, hurry less.

I can let hugs linger longer at bedtime.

And then I won’t miss…

The last time Jason asks me to draw a big helicopter.

The last time Jon crawls into my lap and lays his head on my shoulder.

The last time Judah wants to help me in the kitchen.

The years are flying by, and there will be many lasts.  Let’s not hurry through life and miss out on them, shall we?

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Counting My Blessings: 1266 to 1280

Counting My Blessings

Every week, I share on the blog all the good things (and bad) I am grateful to God for.  If you’d like to know more, check out these blog posts on why I do it and how to get started.  Care to join me on this journey of intentional thanksgiving?

1266. A bee sting.

1267. A hospital visit.

1268. Healing.

1269. The boys screaming India, India, INDIA at home on August 15th.

1270. Jason tickling my toes.

1271. Morning cuddles.

1272. The thought of coffee that wakes me up in the morning.

1273. My aversion to shopping! 🙂

1274. Lessons learnt from women in the Bible.

1275. Acting as a single parent for 3 days – no fun at all!

1276. A fun wedding with friends.

1277. Meeting an online friend in real life.

1278. A safe trip.

1279. Judah saying, “Mama, Jesus is singing in my heart.”

1280. … which reminded me of this verse:

“The LORD your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness; he will quiet you by his love; he will exult over you with loud singing.”  (Zephaniah 3:17)

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5 Steps To Optimize Your Day

I’m an expert at making a mile-long to-do list and not getting much done by the end of the day.  I recently took stock of my responsibilities and the time I have in hand and realized I wasn’t utilizing my time properly.  I ended up following a step by step approach that helped me streamline my day and make the best use of my time.

To read more about the strategy I followed that boosted my productivity and helped me work more efficiently, head on over to Clothed In Scarlet where I’m sharing 5 simple steps to optimize your day.

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Counting My Blessings: 1251 to 1265

Counting My Blessings

Every week, I share on the blog all the good things (and bad) I am grateful to God for.  If you’d like to know more, check out these blog posts on why I do it and how to get started.  Care to join me on this journey of intentional thanksgiving?

1251. Praying Anything.

1252. The boys singing a “Barney” song for their Friendship Day celebration in school.

1253. Learning that we are officially a ‘big’ family according to primary school textbooks.

1254. A raise.

1255. The fight against being a nominal believer of Christ.

1256. The stunning realization that my sons don’t really need me that much now.

1257. A burn that healed.

1258. Introducing people to Jesus – such an privilege!

1259. Old journal entries.

1260. Late night chats with friends.

1261. A sleepover.

1262. These words from our pastor, “Your miracle is God’s mercy towards you.  Your obedience is your worship to Him”.

1263. The principles outlined in Tell Your Time.

1264. Planning, planning and more planning.

1265. These verses:

“In this you rejoice, though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been grieved by various trials, so that the tested genuineness of your faith—more precious than gold that perishes though it is tested by fire—may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ.”  (1 Peter 1:6,7)

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Counting My Blessings: 1236 to 1250

Counting My Blessings

So here I go again, sharing all the good things (and bad) I am grateful to God for.  If you’d like to know more, check out these blog posts on why I do it and how to get started.  Care to join me on this journey of intentional thanksgiving?

1236. The way God interrupts my well-laid plans :).

1237. Jason’s confusion about marriage, “Mama, we’re 3 boys. Then how can we get married?!”

1238. And Jon’s whiny retort, “But I don’t want to get married!”

1239. My husband crafting origami butterflies for the kids to take to school.

1240. My mother’s insistence on doing all the work at home, every time she visits.

1241. Sickness and healing.

1242. The way Judah finished his writing practice work, walked up to me and said, “Here, your majesty!”

1243. A stocked freezer – thanks to my mother and grand-aunt.

1244. God’s grace – always overwhelms me.

1245. The typewriting classes I took a decade ago.

1246. The way the tiny details of life fit into God’s master plan.

1247. The convenience of booking travel tickets from home.

1248. Judah unintentionally falling and hitting his head.  Poor fellow.  But he does make me giggle with his antics.

1249. Family play time.

1250. The peace of God that defies logic at times.

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