Top 3 Thursday – Edition #33

Here are 3 blog posts that encouraged me this week… Click through and read them, won’t you?

1. Calm in the Chaos @ Joy Forney

2. 3 Keys to Balancing Family and Ministry @ Missional Call

3. Mom Sets the Tone {5 Ways to Reset Your Mood When Anger Strikes} @ The Better Mom

If you have read or written an encouraging blog post during the week, would you share the link in the comments below. I’d love to check it out!

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My Annual Goals: 2014

My Annual Goals: 2014

So after a gap of 6 months, and a big debate about the importance of goals versus growth, I set a bunch of goals for myself this year.

My approach toward goal-setting was different this year. You might have heard of S.M.A.R.T. goals… well, here are what I call, G.O.A.L.S. goals :).

I’ve set goals that are:

  • Growth-oriented: They will help me grow in different areas of my life.
  • Ordered: I’ve noted down my main priorities and set goals corresponding to each.
  • Achievable: Seriously! After not reaching many of my previous goals, I’ve made sure these are attainable.
  • Life-friendly: Because life happens… you know?!
  • Simple: I’ve tried not to over-complicate my goals, because I tend to do that sometimes a lot.

Not that anyone is interested in reading about it… but I’m sharing my goals here as an extra level of accountability.

Spiritual:

1. Complete 4 Bible studies with Good Morning Girls.
2. Read through the books of Leviticus, Numbers, Deuteronomy, Joshua, Judges & Ruth.

Intellectual:

3. Read at least 12 full-length, non-fiction books – ideally one each month.
4. Complete the Titus 2 University eCourse.

Physical:

5. Walk a 3 Km stretch by the end of the year.

Marriage:

6. Go out on 4 dates with my husband.

Parenting:

7. Teach the kids 12 verses – one each month.
8. Teach the kids 12 family ways – one each month.

Home Management:

9. Follow the Confident Mom home management planner.

Writing:

10. Write 120 blog posts this year.

That’s it! Just 10 goals… and I’ve broken them into bite-sized pieces for each month. I’ll {hopefully} post an update on my goals at the end of each quarter this year.

Have you set any goals for the new year?
What strategy did you follow?

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Counting My Blessings: 1400 to 1410

Counting My Blessings

Every week (more or less), I share on the blog all the good things (and bad) I am grateful to God for.  If you’d like to know more, check out these blog posts on why I do it and how to get started.  Care to join me on this journey of intentional thanksgiving?

1401. A well-stocked refrigerator.

1402. The Christian Prayer Conference.

1403. Jon asking, “Mama, Jesus was on the cross for SIX hours?”

1404. Lessons from the miracle at the wedding of Cana.

1405. A clean-enough home.

1406. Getting through a hectic week unscathed.

1407. The {Intentionally Focused} Bible study.

1408. Doing a simplified version of the {Intentionally Focused} Kids Bible study with my boys!

1409. My Monday morning ritual – drawing up a plan for the week.

1410. This promise…

Then once more you shall see the distinction
between the righteous and the wicked,
between one who serves God and
one who does not serve him.
(Malachi 3:18)

Are you in the habit of counting your blessings? I mean, literally counting them 1, 2, 3… Would you consider joining me on this journey? Would you dare to live fully, right where you are?

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Top 3 Thursday – Edition #32

You can make 2014 your best year yet! I found some fabulous FREE resources online that will help you make the most of this year. Check them out won’t you?

1. 2014 Calendar @ The Elli Blog

2014 Calendar @ The Elli Blog

I’ve printed this calendar out and keep each month’s sheet on my refrigerator. I use it to note down all the holidays, school and church activities at the beginning of each month.

2. Weekly Household Planner @ The Confident Mom

Weekly Household Planner @ The Confident Mom

Since I really struggled in the homemaking department last year, I was excited to find this resource to guide me through my duties this year. I use the weekly planner with my daily household tasks already mapped out. So I only have to work on those tasks that are applicable to my home and strike them off. I’m loving it already, and my husband will testify to the fact that our house looks tidier and more put together now!

3. Titus 2 University @ Encouraging Beautiful Motherhood

Titus 2 University @ Encouraging Beautiful Motherhood

This is a course I just signed up for and I’m really excited about it. It is a 9 month course that includes downloadable resources and interviews with some lovely women to help us become better women according to the Titus 2 mandate. You’ll have to check it out for yourself!

Have you found any resources to make 2014 your best year yet? Share with us in the comments below!

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A Peaceful 2014

peace-2014

Last year, I chose the word “Persevere” and selected 3 areas I wanted to persevere in: Prayer, Fitness & Home Management. Well, I totally bombed on all 3 fronts… but I did persevere through a lot of other trials that came my way. A new job and additional ministry responsibilities left me disoriented at times. But God gave me the strength to persevere, and the grace to end 2013 on a good note.

If I had to describe 2013 in one word, it would be “Full“! It’s no wonder that when it was time to brainstorm a word for the new year, words that appealed to me were: simple, slow, unhurried… you get the drift :).

And then I came across a blog post written about how a simple life may not be exactly be what God has in mind for us. It was written in the context of Christmas, but of course, the same principle applied to life in general.

Quoting Courtney of Women Living Well:

Is your calendar full from striving, serving or sacrifice? If it’s from striving – stop… But if it’s from serving and sacrifice – may God bless you.

One look at my work plans and our church calendar confirmed what I was already afraid of… 2014 was going to be another full year. But it would be full of serving and sacrifice – and that’s what God has called me to this year.

So, I then began a quest for a new word for the new year. One morning earlier this month, as I was completing my Good Morning Girls Advent Bible Study, {I was only about 10 days late! 🙂 } this verse stood out from my journal:

Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid. (John 14:27)

…and I just knew it! I might face some mighty storms this year – a hectic schedule, numerous events, tight deadlines… but God has promised me one thing: His Peace.

And I cling on to His word, as a lifeline to take me through a year that I hope is not as tumultuous as the last. For He has promised:

“For the mountains shall depart, and the hills be removed;
but my kindness shall not depart from thee,
neither shall the covenant of my peace be removed,
saith the LORD that hath mercy on thee.”

(Isaiah 54:10, Emphasis mine)

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Counting My Blessings: 1391 to 1400

Counting My Blessings

Every week (more or less), I share on the blog all the good things (and bad) I am grateful to God for.  If you’d like to know more, check out these blog posts on why I do it and how to get started.  Care to join me on this journey of intentional thanksgiving?

1391. Praises ringing in the new year.

1392. Reading Isaiah 54 aloud in church.

1393. The meatloaf my husband made.

1394. Jon gingerly stepping on a mud puddle.

1395. Three pairs of bright yellow pajama pants.

1396. The beginning of a crazy-busy 10 days.

1397. A daily routine.

1398. My new household planner.

1399. The look on my husband’s face when he walks into a tidy home.

1400. Quiet mornings with my Bible and journal.

Are you in the habit of counting your blessings? I mean, literally counting them 1, 2, 3… Would you consider joining me on this journey? Would you dare to live fully, right where you are?

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Thankful for 2013!

Thankful for 2013!

I know, I know! This post is a week overdue… but I just had to share it sometime! 🙂

The last week of December 2013 was a good one. I had the week off work, and we were spending it away from home. It was a week filled with loud music, Christmas lights, an abundance of food, wedding festivities, meeting extended family, long journeys, the passing of a loved one…

We were back home on 31st morning so we could ring in the new year with our church family. I was so glad that the first words out of my mouth this year were praises to the Lord!

So, anyway… I spent a lot of time in God’s presence during the last week of December. Journal in hand, I spent my mornings talking to God and listening to Him while the rest of the family slept in. {Precious moments!}

I started writing down everything I was thankful to God for in the year 2013. It was a blissful time of looking back and being grateful for things such as:

  1. Our family’s health
  2. My husband’s ministry
  3. My ministry
  4. The kids’ education
  5. My work at Clothed In Scarlet
  6. Our finances
  7. Books I’ve read
  8. The strength to persevere
  9. Fellowship with friends
  10. Six years of being a wife and mother

… and a whole lot more I didn’t jot down. Sure there were tons of things that didn’t work out as I’d planned last year. Not everything was good, but I’m so glad our God has promised to work everything out for good!

As I sat recounting my blessings, I realized that it was my perspective that mattered. I could choose to be thankful for the good and the bad – and the bad might work out for good anyway!

I do not know how 2013 was for you. It might have been a great year… but perhaps it could have been better. No matter what you went through last year, it’s time to start afresh now… but not without the hope you have in Jesus.

It might be a smooth road ahead, it might be a rocky one… but be encouraged that God is with you. He has walked with you into 2014, and He will lead you right through it. Walk on in faith!

I pray 2014 is your best year yet!

Have a blessed year!

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Top 3 Thursday – Edition #31

This being the final installment of Top 3 Thursday this year, I thought I’ll showcase the top 3 inspirational posts that were viewed on my blog this year. Surprisingly, none of these posts were published in 2013! Or perhaps it’s no surprise, considering my blogging inconsistencies this year! 

Here are the top 3 posts viewed on An Imperfect Life in 2013. Check them out if you haven’t read them yet!

1. 5 Loaves, 2 Fish and 1 Mother

2. Avoiding the Proverbs 31 Burnout

3. God’s Hedge Around Us

If you have read or written an encouraging blog post during the week, would you share the link in the comments below. I’d love to check it out!

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Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas

Let’s seek Christ, not just this season, but every day of our lives. If you need a bit of musical inspiration, I encourage you to listen to the song, How Many Kings?

Here’s wishing you a blessed Christmas as you remember the love, joy, peace and hope you have in Christ!

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Counting My Blessings: 1381 to 1390

Counting My Blessings

Every week (more or less), I share on the blog all the good things (and bad) I am grateful to God for.  If you’d like to know more, check out these blog posts on why I do it and how to get started.  Care to join me on this journey of intentional thanksgiving?

1381. Watching our annual college Christmas play online with hubby dearest.

1382. Watching over the boys as they ride their cycles.

1383. “The Greatest Mission” – our kids’ church Christmas play.

1384. Friends who make sure their friends are well fed!

1385. Surviving a hectic weekend!

1386. Slowing down.

1387. The book, “The Wall Around Your Heart“.

1388. The start of Christmas vacation.

1389. Christmas lights lighting up an entire village.

1390. Tamil songs played over loudspeakers in the above mentioned village… at 1:00AM !!! {#facepalm}

Are you in the habit of counting your blessings? I mean, literally counting them 1, 2, 3… Would you consider joining me on this journey? Would you dare to live fully, right where you are?

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